Stepping In Front of the Camera – A Photographer’s Perspective

In April, I did something I haven’t done in a VERY long time: I chose to be in front of the camera instead of behind it.

I know that doesn’t really sound like a big deal but as someone who spends most of their time capturing others, I’ve always felt most comfortable on the other side of the lens—directing, posing, creating. But when I decided to step into the frame myself, I quickly realized… this is scary. It felt awkward. I didn’t know what to do with my hands. I overthought every little movement. I wondered how I looked, if I was doing it “right,” and suddenly, I understood exactly how a lot of my clients feel.

And that was honestly such a good thing.

Putting myself in that position gave me a newfound empathy for the people who trust me with their stories. I felt nervous even though I knew the person taking my photos. I second-guessed myself even though I knew it wasn’t about perfection. And yet—after a while—I relaxed. I let go. I started to feel instead of perform. And that’s when the magic happened.

That’s when I remembered what it’s like to just be seen. How I needed to create moments and memories to be captured instead of poses.

As a photographer, my job is to make others feel safe, celebrated, and comfortable in their own skin. But doing this for myself reminded me that vulnerability is powerful. It reminded me how important it is to take the time to build trust, give gentle direction, and create space for people to just be.

This experience wasn’t just a personal step—it made me a better photographer. I now approach sessions with even more patience and compassion. I’ve started explaining poses a little differently. I take more time checking in. Because now, I get it in a way I didn’t before.

If you’ve ever felt nervous about being photographed—I want you to know, I’ve been there. I am there. And I promise: my goal will always be to make you feel like your most comfortable, beautiful, and true self.